There are many ways in which children learn about life through play. Getting along with others is an important skill. While at Playscape, you can observe children as they figure out how to do the things that interest them, while also negotiating and navigating in an environment with other children and adults.

Take a moment to consider all that's happening when you enter Playscape. There are many areas of interest full of different materials where children and adults, both those they know and those they don't, are exploring. There are lights, things to look at, things to touch, climb, and sit on. There is talking, joyful exclaiming, laughter, and perhaps even some crying. You are transitioning, having just arrived from home or another setting.

As children learn about getting along with others, it is helpful to consider the whole scene. What is your child's temperament? What is your temperament? What is going on in the environment that may be impacting their experience? How much and what type of exposure have they had?

One way we can help our children cope with social interactions is to keep in mind all of the above, while remembering that they are still developing the skills needed to get along with others. Learning takes time and lots of practice to master.

Play & Learn At Home

Here are some things you can do to support learning how to get along with others through play from zerotothree.org:

Suggest, when appropriate, that children turn to their peers for assistance or to get answers to their questions: "Are you wondering how to get the little doll to sit in the high chair? Why don't you ask Jeremy? I saw him feeding her a few minutes ago."

Ask children to imagine how their behavior might affect others: "I noticed that you told Greta she can't play ball with you. How do you think that made her feel?"

Encourage children to work in groups or as teams, when it's appropriate: "Sam and DeShawn, could you please put the cars away? Then you can help me get your snack ready."

Help children see others' points of view, which encourages empathy: "Casey is feeling sad because his mom had to leave."

Looking for more inspiration at home? We love these resources:
 

Helping your child build relationships
https://www.zerotothree.org/resource/tips-on-helping-your-child-build-relationships/

Understanding behavior and temperament 
https://raisingchildren.net.au/newborns/behaviour/understanding-behaviour/temperament